Ah, dating. Do you remember those days? After marriage and a baby, dating your partner is probably the last thing on your mind. I get it. Dating is expensive. It takes time. It takes energy. These are things you may be lacking as a busy couple. But, there are low cost date night ideas you can incorporate into your busy schedule and I think you should. Why? Because dating your partner now is more important than ever.
Not only is dating after you are married incredibly beneficial to your marriage, it’s also really important to the rest of your family dynamic. When mom and dad are happy and show love toward one another, kids can feel that energy. The same is true when mom and dad aren’t happy. For these reasons, date night should be one of the most important appointments on that very busy family calendar!
With a little planning, you can incorporate date night back into your schedule. Start with one night a month, for example. Then perhaps try to find time for one night a week. There are a lot of ways you and your partner can invest in one another without spending much (if anything!) and, perhaps, not even leaving the house! Here are some low cost date night ideas you can use to start making your dating life a priority again.
If you live in an area where fire pits are allowed, schedule a night to meet with drinks and maybe some s’mores after the kids are in bed. Enjoy the warmth of the fire and quiet conversation with each other until the fire burns out.
Pick a type of museum and spend a few hours wandering around. Is natural history your thing? Maybe science? How about art? There are so many options!
Hit up your nearest flea market or antique mall. Or give yourselves a spending limit and see who can find the coolest treasure at the local thrift store.
Grab your swimsuit, some sunscreen, and fill up a travel cup with an “adult” beverage, and go get some sun by the community pool. If you don’t have a pool available to you, check with a close-by hotel to see if you can purchase a day pass.
After the kids go to bed, sip some wine while you give each other massages. Or go for a couple’s mani-pedi at your local salon.
Watch your husband revert back to his 13-year-old self as he plays every old school game he used to love. Ask him to teach you how to play his favorite one.
With so many craft breweries popping up all over the country, you should be able to find a place to try some new varietals or brews at very little cost.
When was the last time you bowled? If you haven’t been in a while, I can assure you that bowling with your partner is a ton of fun!
If you live close to a body of water, go hop on a river float. Or find a spot by the lake or the beach to relax, play some volleyball or frisbee, and get some sun.
Try your hand at wine and cheese pairings at home! Or find a local winery or bar that offers wine and cheese flights.
Do you love to work out or do yoga? Go get sweaty (or zen) together.
Drive-in movies are becoming a thing again. Pick a nice evening and go watch a classic under the stars with your love.
I love challenging my partner to a game of pool. I generally have no idea what I’m doing, but I tend to play well. Even if you’re terrible at pool, your partner will get a kick out of either teaching you or beating you!
For nature lovers, pack up a few water bottles and some snacks and hit the trails.
On a pretty day, there’s nothing better than a picnic in a beautiful park! Don’t have a sitter? Have dinner in the backyard after the kids go down.
Most local pubs will have a trivia night that you can join. Have some beer and see how much useless information you know together!
No matter where you live, there’s bound to be a cute little town or city that you haven’t explored in a while. Take a day and play tourist!
I love game night! You can find an old-fashioned board game or you can find games online to play together.
There is something so sexy about cooking and baking with your partner. Turn on some music, light some candles, open some wine. Don’t worry about cleaning up until the next morning!
As you can see, there are countless ways to get date night back on your calendar without spending a fortune. Maybe, this month, challenge yourself to schedule two date nights with your partner and see if you can’t reignite some of that excitement you felt in the very beginning. Happy dating!
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