November 22, 2019
With the holidays approaching, many parents may begin to worry about whether traveling with their little ones will ruin the sleep habits that they’ve worked so hard to establish. This is a totally valid concern. Traveling is a tricky endeavor when you’re trying to keep your child on a sleep schedule. There’s always something exciting going on, friends and relatives who are anxious to see the baby, and others who have no idea how hard you’ve worked to get your little one sleeping through the night. But even though you’re away from home, babies and young children still need to be sleeping well. If you’re committed to maintaining some healthy sleep habits while traveling (while also thoroughly enjoying yourself), it’s totally possible! With some strategic planning and firm boundaries, you can keep sleep on track no matter the destination.
Even before travel, we are frequently running around, tying up loose ends and getting ready for our trip. If you’re carting your child around from place to place, this can throw off the great sleep routine you’ve worked so hard to create. Do your best to focus on naps and early bedtimes in the week leading up to the trip so that you don’t start your travels with a sleep deficit. Starting with a well-rested child will set you up for success from the very beginning.
When planning where to stay while on vacation – be that a hotel, with family, or an Airbnb – your best choice is always going to be whichever allows you to have the most control over your environment. Keeping your child’s sleep space as close to his or her home space as possible is one of the most important considerations when planning for sleep success.
If your little one is used to sleeping in his or her own room, room-sharing on vacation can be overwhelming and lead to tough nights. If you’re staying in a hotel, try to book a room with an attached area or separate room. I know this is not always possible so in a pinch, a large walk-in closet or even a bathroom can work well too (as long as there is good circulation!) If you’re staying with friends or family, talk with them in advance about having separate spaces for sleeping. Home offices work well as a make-shift nursery!
Maintaining your little one’s own sleeping space is the best-case scenario to make sure everyone gets a good night’s sleep. If separate spaces just aren’t an option, try to at least put some distance or some type of barrier between your bed and your child’s sleep space. You can even try to create a partition in the room so that your child can’t see you from their crib or bed. (Large binder clips and a spare sheet can work wonders!)
Whether or not you realize it, your child’s sleep environment is a huge cue for sleeping well. Making your surroundings as similar as possible to your home nursery or child’s bedroom will help immensely. Bring your sound-machine, your baby’s favorite lovey, even your own crib sheets. Anything that smells familiar and reminds them of their home sleeping environment will help them get to sleep in their new surroundings.
Along the same lines, darkness is super helpful in keeping sleep on track, especially when traveling across time zones. If you are unsure whether your accommodations will be sufficiently dark enough, plan to travel with portable black out shades. I am also a huge fan of the SlumberPod – a tent-like situation that can go over a Pack ‘n Play to create a dark (and private) sleep space for your child. In a pinch, tinfoil or construction paper taped to the windows can also work well.
A familiar bed and nap time routine cues your child that it’s time for sleep. While you’re traveling and the schedule’s a little wonky and the surroundings are different, a recognizable bedtime routine can go a long way in helping your child settle down and fall asleep easily. Bring the books you usually read and sing the songs you usually sing. Maintaining the same sleep habits while traveling in the same order as at home will help your child feel at ease even in a new place.
If you have a usually great sleeper on your hands or are good about sticking to a routine at home, allow yourself to relax and enjoy your vacation. Prioritize sleep when you can, but don’t lose your sanity. Your little one will adapt, and you can hop right back on track when you get home!
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