Is it possible to enjoy an argument-free marriage?
Author Fawn Weaver says that you can.
Now, before you dismiss her vision for marital bliss
too quickly, give her a chance to explain. She’ll tell you plainly that building
an argument-free marriage takes some grit. Ironically, couples don’t find
harmony by striving for peace at all costs. They don’t avoid serious
conversations or sweep important issues under the rug, either.
You eliminate arguments through effective
communication that gets to the truth of a matter and that offers genuine
That may sound obvious on the face of it, but every
day here at Focus on the Family we hear from couples who don’t communicate well.
They’re struggling to create a meaningful and fulfilling marriage. And they
always will as long as they’re not on the same page with each other.
Most arguments are about simple things, like the
garbage not being taken out or clothes abandoned in the middle of the floor.
But small issues have a way of locking arms with other small issues until they
become a big issue. And left unresolved, they can take down a marriage.
It doesn’t have to be that way. On our Focus on the
Family Broadcast “Reducing Conflict in Your
we want to equip you and your spouse with healthy ways to de-escalate your conflict.
Fawn Weaver is our guest. She is an author, speaker, and businesswoman who founded
the Happy Wives Club, a community of more than one million women in 110
countries who connect online.
talk was based on her book The Argument-Free Marriage available in our online bookstore.
You can hear my conversation with Fawn
Weaver on your local
radio station, online, on Apple Podcasts, via Google Podcasts,
or on our free phone app.
will teach you how you and your spouse can both get what you want out of
marriage and do it without breaking down into conflict.
Before I close, I want you to know that if your
marital conflict is more severe than what this program addresses, we have
resources available for you, too. In particular, I encourage you to give our counselors here at Focus on the Family a call
at 1-800-A-FAMILY (232-6459). A short talk can go a long way toward restoring
your hope, facilitating healing between you and your spouse, and bringing
restoration to your relationship.
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